4 Debts You Shouldn’t Get Into Your Life
Living in this life, there are life debts that you really should avoid or try not to get involved in.
When we ask for help from others, we create a debt that must be repaid in human-to-human relationships. This debt is one of gratitude. For instance, if someone lends you $5,000, you would repay them with $5,500 as a thank you.
But the debt is still outstanding. Maybe the other person may think “This time I help you, next time it will be your chance to help me”. You won’t have the option to say no when they ask. If you come across someone who has negative intentions, you will never be able to repay their thanks.
As a result, when you run into problems, prepare for this scenario beforehand. If you can’t fix anything on your own, you should rely on it.
There are some relationships in life that should be treasured and maintained, while others that only cause problems should be ended.
Some people have emotional debts from their youth. Many people are still emotionally attached to their ex-partners or other lovers after getting married.
Never undervalue fate’s cruelties. These predestined debts will forever cling to you and ruin the happiness of your family if you have a soft heart and still harbor feelings for your former partner.
Spending first and paying later is a habit that society is forming. Many people will use a credit card, make an installment payment, or borrow money to purchase a luxury item they desire but are unable to afford.
The wealthy do not have a problem with the practice of spending money before making payments, but the average person will be enslaved by debt as a result. Try to work hard now so that you can be happy and free in the future, as opposed to being happy first and suffering later. We won’t be able to control our lives until then.
When we are shown kindness by others, we need to know how to accept it and respond. However, as society develops, individualism increases and people become more self-centered, they are more likely to forget to return favors to those who have helped them. No matter how much they contribute, ungrateful people still don’t appreciate it.
God’s plan is always fair, though, and for those who have helped, even a simple “thank you” or “I’m thinking of you” can demonstrate your regard for them. Contrarily, if there isn’t even a small token of appreciation, your blessings will eventually fade away, and worse yet, no one will want to assist you any longer.
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